Things that bother your wife during sex!

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By astrate

Do Not Disturb!!!
Do Not Disturb!!!

Intro

An extensive research with lots of women has been conducted about sexual habits amongst married people. The result came out that the most annoying sexual habits which annoy wives are summarized in few basic issues as follows:

Asking permission:

The most annoying habit is when the man asks his wife to have sex with him as if he is asking for food or something! The husband should know when his wife is ready for sex thru hints without the need to ask for it. A mere look or just a touch might be enough to make the wife understand. In other words, the husband should be romantic and resort to his intelligence.

Routine sex:

Majority of women consider sex without emotions as very boring. Women don't like to be treated as tools in bed where the man can use anytime. So, experts recommend that the man should be considerate during sex because not all women reveal their true emotions. They might be troubled but they don't show, a thing which will create many complications and eventually kill the romance. So, here needs are before yours.

Continuity of love:

After a span of time, marriage will come thru a cold phase, and sex might become a given thing according to the husband but things are different with the wife. She still needs to feel his tenderness and his warmth. So, husbands should do small behaviors to make the wife feel that she still occupies the highest place in her man's heart and mind. Like, the husband can leave a small love note before leaving to work, or fill the house with candles and prepare for a romantic dinner. The whole thing depends on some consideration only without taking the marriage for granted.

Having sex in the same place:

Routine is a killer again where the wife feels bored when having sex in the place again and again for a period of time. Solution is simple here because there are other rooms, including the kitchen and bathroom, and the options vary a lot. You just need to ignite your imagination and surprise yourself and her with a new idea everyday. If that doesn't totally help, changing the drapes or painting the house might just be the right answer.

Talking too much or not talking at all:

The wife might feel fed up if she listens to the same words during sex over and over again because, according to some women, talking during sex can be stimulating. So, nobody likes to repeat the same tape again, hence, the man should try to change his style every time to break the norms. The other problem is when the man is of a kind who doesn’t talk at all during sex. This utter silence could push the woman to the edge and prevent her from enjoying.

When the routine is not broken:

The wife might lose the interest in sex when the husband stops looking for new methods or ways, or when the sex ends up as a given job. The husband should be innovative and creative to spice things up once in a while. Having sex the same way, same style, with the same words for years will definitely kill the romance so, originality should be maintained between them.

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dallas93444 profile image

dallas93444 Level 6 Commenter 21 months ago

Sex R US... Bottom line: It is all "relationships." Treat your partner like you want to be treated...

sugarflower profile image

sugarflower 21 months ago

I agree

astrate profile image

astrate Hub Author 21 months ago

That sums it up dallas, thanks.

dashingscorpio profile image

dashingscorpio Level 5 Commenter 20 months ago

These same things bother husbands too! LOL!

No man "wants" to have to ask his wife for sex.

They would love to be surprised by their wives from time to time.

Both the wife and husband are responsible for (their) sex life. They both need to come up with ways to spice it up. A marriage without romance & passion is prison!:-)

"It easier to maintain a fire than it is to reignite a spark!"

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